Sara at the start of her safari adventure. |
She has been married to her husband
of 14 years, fun loving Andrew and they both decided they wanted to experience
an African adventure. To me, Sara is a young spirited, friendly and caring
women with a sparkle in her eyes. She reminds me of what a British granny would
be like, who loves a good cuppa tea.
Sara described Andrew, as her
constant rock and support and the one who has encouraged her to travel. She
lovingly told me how without him, her life would not be so adventurous.
Since April 1991 Sara has been right leg amputee. She was experiencing extreme pain in her left
leg that led to a hospital trip. After an x-ray was done, blood clots showed up
as the reason for the gruelling pain. However even though it was her left leg
that was infected with the blood clots, she was soon booked in for an
amputation of her right leg, as that was the leg slowly being poisoned.
She told me that at first she didn't experience many emotions as she was just happy that the pain was gone,
as well as being dosed up on morphine. A couple days after the operation the
shock hit her of what she had lost, describing ‘’the shock as horrendous.’’ She
had to undergo another further 2 operations because of complications.
I asked Sara how her life changed
after the operation, she explained that, ‘’life changed dramatically.’’ Sara
was in the hospital for a dreary 11 weeks, apart from regular physiotherapy not
much was going on. Her first trip out was also the first time it hit her that
she wasn't going to be able bodied like before. At the festival she described, that
people treated her as though she had lost her brain and not her leg. Many times
people would speak to her carer instead of her. This understandably made Sara
feel frustrated and she admitted a little angry.
Sara and a cheetah. |
The love and support from family
and friends got her through the emotional time of coming to terms with her limb
loss. Sara’s employers also offered her immense support; during her 9 months
off of work, her employers kept in touch and visited. Her first day back on the
job she was welcomed back to work with pretty flowers and a welcome back
banner. She described the staff that she worked with as all very supportive,
and tells me how they jokingly told her, that if she wasn't nice to them they
would take away her walking sticks away and abandon her 5 floors up! ‘’They
were a load of jokers but it was the best way of dealing with the situation,’’
she positively explained.
She says that she didn't have to
make any special adjustments to her new life. After being back at work for a
few months she was promoted and given a company car that had been adapted just
for her! Her new job also brought exciting perks of travelling around the UK and
Europe.
Sara shares her advice as, ‘’anyone
who suffers a similar fate has to accept that life will be different but when
one door shut another opens. There are so many opportunities for disabled
people to join in these days. Sport can be rewarding and travel is so very easy
with all the companies geared up to dealing with disabilities. At the end of
the day we are no different to able bodied people.’’
Sara and Andrew in Cape Town. |
‘’Don’t be afraid, just go out there and live life to the full.’’ – Sara Marshall
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